Raelou
12-07-2009, 05:30 AM
I am 17 years of age. I grew up with a not so secure relationship with my parents or the adults around me, its left me with issues of trying to controle things, i think to protect myself, my parents are alcohole and drug dependent. I have a beautiful, caring boyfriend that loves to love and help others. Previously i had him all to me, all his attention and focus. Recently that has been shed as my beautiful aunty has moved in. And my boyfriend has found a girl who is a friend. I went to his christmas party and sat and watched them getting on so well. The emotions were eating at me, what i saw was something different between them to, something special we dont have, he reassured me that wasn't true but its still on my mind that picture. I tried to talk with him about it saying i cant handle this if you want to have this relationship with her you can but not with me in your life. I realise this was wrong. I would like some advice,help in fixing my jelousey/possessiveness. Thanks.