ravenryan
12-09-2009, 02:49 AM
If anyone has suggestions please share. My problem is I dont and have never had friends, it used to bother me but now I realize that my personality is not compatible with alot of people, I have strong politcal views and I am an only child. However, I am 24 and I still dont make friends and when I do, it just seems to fade off, I usually start thinking of reasons that this person likes me is reasons like "their real friends are too busy". it bothers me because I have cousins who are within 10 years of my age and they keep their opinions to themselves and dont tell me why they dont invite to places. It is frustrating and accomodates and worsens the depression I already have from other issues. By reading how i write you should get a feel for how I address people, do you see anything in how I speak or communicate that would push people away? Am I to selfish? Am I not selfish enough? People that I used to hang around and new people call me mr negative and I say some messed up things, but I only say that stuff when I feel like I am not wanted around the group. It is really putting a toll on me now because I used to be sexually active at my old job because I worked there for a while and got comfortable in my space to talk to women and I got fired. This is a problem because I am getting feelings of anger and the depression is getting worse due to lack of a sex life. I am scared of talking to people I am not comfortable around, which unfortunately includes women. Please help. Thanks