View Full Version : Arguing infron of children
Greenpixy18
12-06-2008, 09:41 PM
Ok, is it me or do people not give a crap what they say infront of their children. I remember when I was a kid my friends parents used to argue infront of us all the time. We really coudn't stand it. I made us feel so unsafe and uneasy. They don't relaize the damage they do .
Salazarr
12-06-2008, 09:48 PM
Well i mean it is very hard not too. I do blame tem though in some occasions. My family dosn't argue that much, actually rarely...But anyway.
money-D
12-06-2008, 10:19 PM
My parent's argue in front of me and my friends, but the arguments are fake and only to try and make us laugh.
It really depends on the parent. It seems that kids with parents that argue a lot tend to be the same way.
Salazarr
12-06-2008, 10:21 PM
My parent's argue in front of me and my friends, but the arguments are fake and only to try and make us laugh.
It really depends on the parent. It seems that kids with parents that argue a lot tend to be the same way.
O.o...seems like, i hope not.
raushan2007
12-06-2008, 10:25 PM
Well i mean it is very hard not too. I do blame tem though in some occasions. My family dosn't argue that much, actually rarely...But anyway.
Speaking truely than you are really lucky...we always fight
Salazarr
12-06-2008, 10:26 PM
:pSpeaking truely than you are really lucky...we always fight
...i dont consider myself lucky, my parents just get along with eachother well...its only me thats the problem :p
Gamersunited22
12-06-2008, 11:05 PM
My parents were never arguing they just got divorced and that was it ! my mum used to swear in front of me some times but that was it,
Salazarr
12-06-2008, 11:06 PM
My parents were never arguing they just got divorced and that was it ! my mum used to swear in front of me some times but that was it,
Yea she only used to swear at front of you THAT was it, thats the only thing she did...Swearing to a child is very bad...
priyank_unbeatable
12-07-2008, 05:31 AM
Ok, is it me or do people not give a crap what they say infront of their children. I remember when I was a kid my friends parents used to argue infront of us all the time. We really coudn't stand it. I made us feel so unsafe and uneasy. They don't relaize the damage they do .
yes this is most commonly faced by many of us during our child hood we face argues among our elderly but i think it is due to generation gap and our childish psychology isnt it so???
neversurrender
12-07-2008, 06:05 AM
I think sometimes they need to fall out with each other . always get on with each other well might be boring .But i don't mean that they should fight in front of children.;)
bowman
12-07-2008, 08:59 AM
Parents are the best teachers of children, they are god given teachers actually. When the parents do all sorts of rubbish in front of children like using foul language & arguing then the child grows up to argue with their parents. The child grows up disturbed.
Salazarr
12-07-2008, 10:14 AM
ofcourse they are, but parents always have to make atleast one mistake.
goutham
12-07-2008, 02:59 PM
yeah parents should not argue infront of childrens because it hurts them
zinta
12-25-2008, 05:54 AM
well parents should avoid such type of stuff in front of their child......as the child take it in a broader way and he starts arguing with the parents in the further stage of their life....
khassa
12-25-2008, 08:46 AM
its a very bad habbit as the child learns from his parents ...so they should never argue infront of their children as they should feel embrassed while doing so.....
malika sharma
03-21-2009, 08:49 PM
yeah, i get so upset when my parents argue in front of me. i feel like running out f home that time.
i just cant take this shit!
i mean, they are fighting but they are giving tension to me indirectly!
i m 21 years old but still i just cant see them fighting
premanand
03-22-2009, 12:09 AM
yeah you are rite, fortunately i never seen my parents fight in front of me when i was a child but heard from my friends abt how they will feel when these things takes place, latest incident is my sister tried to hit her husband with a cricket bat in front of their 10 year old son, yest that small kid tried to hit my sister wen she sitched off the Tv when he was watching, even though he is just a kid if this hatred grows in this mind then no one can help him, so my view in this problem is parents should try not to fight at all leave alone in front of son/daughter so that it only grows love in his mind .
This leads to children becoming more impatient and angry too.Parents must stop this
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