Divorce speak out

[bluet]

Everytime a parent got into divorce, the hardest part is to tell the children. The effects can be some trauma or even guilty feelings. The children will feel that they are naughty and the parents leave because of them. What is the best way to prevent it>

[bowman]

You have rightly mentioned about the child's feeling about divorce. I think there is no way a marriage cannot last, every parent has the responsibility to smoothly look after the family. It is very difficult to let children know about divorce, i think transfer on job would just be the right alibi.

[Tompkins]

I do not know any ways to prevent it, but when a couple is divorcing, it's after many fights which the child have seen, so he might have seen it coming.
It's easier that way, when the child knows what's going to happen.

[sham]

I'm very happy to view such a post ... very difficult situation ... If the divorce happens because of the misunderstanding which lead them for wars .. really the child would have seen it .. it very difficult to make the child understand Wat is the problem or the cause is .. if not , it was not explain too ... in the future child's life gets spoil without a reason. if explain too, it won't be too genuine...

[zinta]

I think he should get the full freedom to meet his parents after a regular span of time....this would keep his parents in touch with him...so he could change his attitude as his life progresses.....