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arvinth_cena
12-07-2008, 12:43 PM
this is a debatable problem. send me ur views.

goutham
12-07-2008, 03:14 PM
parents who will scould their children repeatedly affects the children
they will be depressed and they will scared to yalk with parents and feels lonely

bowman
12-07-2008, 03:32 PM
Some parents are short tempered, or either of the parent is a short tempered and this always leads to scolding their offspring for even a small fault or no fault also. The child gets depressed due to constant scolding or even starts growing up with a negative mindset.

0099
12-22-2008, 05:59 PM
sometimes parents don't understand that their child is a different personality and that he is niave to understand so many things at an early stage. they expect a lot and impose their decisions on them and when the child is unabl to fulfill them they keep on scolding him which decreases his self- confidense.

zinta
12-24-2008, 10:07 AM
well it is also a severe problem because parents pressurise their child to do the thing that they want him to do...every human being in this world has some hidden talent in them....parents need to furnish the talent and give their child the direction in that field....

akshaykalia
03-22-2009, 10:58 AM
repeated scoldings can scar the life of a child..child is a delicate being and things he witness in his childhood is hard to erase..
some parents are not the 'ideal' ones and they make their childrens life a hell..they start avoiding their parents..lose respect and start fearing them..child is then never open to share his problems with them..

Refresher
03-22-2009, 11:32 AM
It will just make the child less caring for his parents The relationship b/w parents and children will reduce, and repeated scolding will also not improve the situation ie not make the child realise his mistakes.

Mick
03-22-2009, 01:30 PM
Ive heard that some parents scould their children so much that they even commit suicide.

Jackson
03-22-2009, 01:34 PM
Normally parents scold for their children's goodness but children couldn't understand the parents because they are children so parents should know that how children listens to them and follow the right way!

srk
03-24-2009, 05:43 AM
At this present era the parents are very friendly with thier childrens.But some parents do as you say.By doing like that the children wil not be so affectionate towards thiers parents.Instead of scolding them you can speak to them softly and make them understand how serious is the life.

Jenny
04-14-2009, 04:55 AM
Children, who are repeatedly scolded, develop a psychological reactance i.e they easily feel offended, has negative expectations from others and often fights with people.