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goutham
12-07-2008, 01:46 PM
My parents have been split up for about 8 yrs and my bro lives with my dad and i live with my mum.
Ever since the split my bro has been very depressed even though it happened so long ago. And yesterday when my dad was visiting me, me and my bro played wii sports and wii fit and he started screaming and going wild because he couldn't beat my scores (im 12 and hes 14)
Then he went to the kitchen and me and my dad just thought he was off in a strop and when he came back in he was all happy and said: "Look Ive cut myself, now ive done this think of what else I can do!!!" It was quite a small cut but it was bleeding, we didnt tell my mum as she was out and they were ust about to go home. I am so worried please tell me what we should do???

sham
12-07-2008, 02:14 PM
lack of acceptance .... he's lacking .... acceptance is the basic thing ...
I'm not sure whether he can grow or take it but u can try out with him ....
Just open to explain him what is the true ..... actually he's apart from his normal life ... Try to make him strong .... or he'll fall in to complexion ....

khassa
12-08-2008, 08:41 AM
i agree with the above user.. your brother is small enough to accept it that your parents are no longer with each other.....you should try to motivate him......

goutham
12-09-2008, 03:29 PM
guys thanks for your opinon