Bully and the social phobia

[bluet]

Some children who are having a social phobia might be a victim for bullying at school or college. They are the typical quiet and non responsive kids, and some other kids will make fun of them. They will also stay out of most activities and this situation need an extra concern from the parents. What is the best way to prevent it?

[admin]

I think you will need to work together with teacher, school psychologist and parents. And find out how this develops. May be the children might need some form of therapy like play therapy or family therapy etc...

[Salazarr]

I would say to move the child at another school.
There are many Schools that are completely against bullying and could expell the Bully. Just a thought...at my school, there is rarely bullying, and we have a handicap in my class he has mental disabillities as well as physical. Instead we try to encourage him and help him.

[Greenpixy18]

I agree with you on the fact that it would be best to move the child to another school, because if you force the child to go to the same school, where he is forced to take major phyisical damage he will most likley just skip school all together and in the long run really damage his future.

[admin]

I would say to move the child at another school.
There are many Schools that are completely against bullying and could expell the Bully. Just a thought...at my school, there is rarely bullying, and we have a handicap in my class he ha mental disabillities as well as physical. Instead we try to encourage him and help him.

Moving child should be last resort and you have to try to work with school teachers, educational psychologists etc... before considering to move the child to different school.

[Salazarr]

Thank you greenpix.
But i also would like to say, that i agree with admin too with the therapy part. It might really affect the child. Therapy is always a very good way to calm the child, and tell him about the good sides of it.

Edit: May i ask why it should be last resort?

[bowman]

I think there is no phobia here, it should some normal behavior. Those children are introverts, who keep everything to themselves and outgoing personalities are extroverts. But getting bashed by bullies is no phobia.

[Salazarr]

True...Hmm, i am in a bit of a doubt, perhaps if we all go look for some info, we might be able to find a conclusion. I would say that getting bashed by bullies isn't neccesatily phobia, but we are talking about the child getting bullied, not the bully.

[Gamersunited22]

The phobia itself is strange but i supose could be helped by making your child go to youth club's or similar sending him to the neibourghs house for dinner with their kids and so on

[Salazarr]

There are many different types of phobia's and they are all strange...trust me.

[Gamersunited22]

I have only ever had one phobia and that is dental phobia ! they just dont make any sense !

[Salazarr]

...I dont know really..I never pay attention, anywayz back to topic i dont think this is a phobia.