Negative mindset

[bowman]

When i was growing up, my dad used to use " no, you cannot" words always, he was a positive person, but had little knowledge of parenting. This made me a less confident person, only on my own i overcame this negativity. Hope none of the forum members grew up with a negative mindset and self doubt.

[khassa]

according to me if you are unwilling to do something or if you are not able to do that thing you always try to avoid that thing....this type of behaviour is the main cause of negative mindset.....i think "Impossible is Nothing"....

[sham]

"nothing is Impossible" Just tell yourself i can do .
If ur firm in ur mindset no one can change it .
If thing it's not possible yes, for sure it is not possible . Think positively , things will happen good for u

[0099]

the problem which you have faced in your child hood is quite a severe cause of loss of self- confidense and depression and unfortunately it is very common every where because some parents doesn't allow their children to do things in which they themselves have failed.

[zinta]

well i totally agree with the thread starter.....if the parents recursively will use the same word(no you wouldn't)to their child this would definitely reduce his self confidence of doing something...parents should always encourage their child to do the thing that their child want to do if the thing is best for him.....

[vandy02]

I believe that one should always be positive in his life and should not be demoralized if failed once.Never approach the work with a negative aspect as it may kill the confidence of the person and he may not feel cheerful about doing things.I believe that parents must try to complete their child's wish if possible and do not say no if its his wish.Be a good parent.

[ENGLISH]

Use of words doen't mean your father is a pessimist,even my father uses the same but he has a valid point why he is using such words i feel his care in those words may be you too will feel the same someday later.All the parents are good for their son in most aspects its only in our hands to take their views.if we take them in a positive way we can win their love else hatred only prevails.

[arunkumarrr]

One should not worry about what others saying about him and he should first believe in himself then no one will have negative mindset..

[123sim]

Hello

1. Stop listening to the news. It’s really bad right now. Stocks are down, gas is up, European and Asian markets are crashing. The media makes everything sound much worse than it is. Yes, we have issues in this country that need to be fixed, but talking about them and rehashing them all day long won’t solve them. Someone once said, “If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem.”

2. Get around positive, happy people. This isn’t always easy to do. To escape unhappy, complaining people, you may have to stop seeing some good friends or family members! But, you have to surround yourself with people who have an upbeat attitude. A positive attitude can be as contagious as a negative one. When you make a conscious effort to be positive, you can’t help but notice how negative everyone around you is…like when you are on a diet, and you notice every morsel that everyone else eats!

[ethonfrank9]

Generally in some families some persons have suffer like that problem with the negative thinking.The parents always say to their children you can not do this thing.Because of that the negative effect create in his mind he lose his confidence and he has to suffer from lack of confidence.