Is my Borderline Personality Disorder ruining my relationship?

[sena2gurl]

My boyfriend and I are having major communication issues. We both do not know how to create a successful outcome to an arguement. I think it is mainly because we both are a mixture for disaster anyway. I have borderline personality disorder (BPD), and he has severe anger issues. Neither of us have insurance, therefore, getting a counselor is out of the issue. We have been together for almost 4 years and have lived together for about 85% of that time. Having BPD causes me to be severely and violently jealous.

[0099]

this is a really tircky situatio at one end you love him and and on the other end you have such kind of problem. i think a case like you needs a lot of patience from your boyfriend's side as well as from yours. you need to meditate and talk a lot with him.......

[Airpillman]

Hi, I have a friend who I think may have BPD. She can like u loads one minute then one word can bring her to hating me. She wants to be with me loads one minute and then the next minute never. I have actually started getting more feelings for her lately to the point where I have fell for her. But I am worried that if I tell her it would make her more ill. I love her and the last thing I would see happen to her is her in any more pain then she is right now. :(
Can anybody help?

[admin]

Borderline personality disorder can affect relationship. Features of BPD include unstable relationship and it is very common in people with BPD.

[NipelHOD]

I am a new user. to the discussion can be?