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calm
02-26-2009, 09:06 PM
please be easy with me. ( i'm new to this forum )



hope i've come to the right place .



i'm trying to write a story, although i have never written one before, and haven't read many.





but that's not the issue i've come here about exactly.






you will understand why i say please be calm with me. I've kept a secret from my parents for many months and haven't spoken to anybody about it. i need help. i have a past of recently, before the event (which i will explain in a moment), being put in a mental hospital. being taken back to a place like that is my worst fear at the current time, or being fed prescribed drugs and the sort. hopefully i'm explaining this ok. the fact is, after i got out of the mental hospital, i wanted revenge, i felt angry, and abused. i had been suicidal before i ended up there and made attempts but more along the lines of experimental attempts, which is very bad i understand. however, a few months after coming out of the hospital back home once my strength was up again, i truly knew how evil life could get because of all the torment (of the hospital). i wanted to end it all once and for all. that was how i felt anyway.. so i made plans. i searched and thought about the most effective way to end my life for sure. i won't mention any methods. but then an opportunity came where i thought i could end my life completely even though i just wanted things to be better and feel safe. but i took the opportunity and tried to end my life. i was absolutely certain 100% it would happen. but it didn't and i lived. nobody found out either. but i was sure i cleared up after myself and even have a memory of clearing up but i found out the next day i hadn't but i managed to hide the scar on myself that was left. Anyway.. i am afraid that somebody will find out about it and especially since i'm writing a story. And although my dad and others have told me that i won't end up in a mental hospital or be treated with drugs, i still fear they could change their mind or that the law would force it upon me. but i don't have knowledge of a such a law, i'm just afraid one exists as it seems likely. i'm afraid of what will happen to me and my family as a result. i'm afraid of the power people have over me, like doctors, the law and such. i don't feel i can trust anybody, but i'm afraid. so is there such a form of help for this problem. should i continue to write a story ? will people torment me again and make me so angry and frightened if they find out ? what support is there ? do you have advice for me.. please.. i'm afraid. thankyou. and i'm greatful for this website too

griffon
03-03-2009, 07:43 AM
Hi, I am new here too and I can relate to how you feel, you aren't alone. I have felt the same way as you multiple times throughout my life, feelings of hopelessness, confusion, and anger. I haven't found many solutions to curing these feelings and some solutions just tend to make it worse...going to see a counselor didn't make anything better because it reminded me of all the problems I've had. My best advice to you, is just think things through positively and keep an open mind. Try to ward off those suicidal thoughts, I know its hard but try finding something that will give you a good experience and make you happy, happy enough to ward off those thoughts. If writting a story helps you ward them off and makes you feel better then keeps writting but I think if you write the story it will keep reminding you of those thoughts and the mental hospital so the best solution for that is to stop writting.

Also, just know that there are people who do care for you that don't want you to have those type of thoughts. It may be hard to believe sometimes but its the truth and I don't like anyone having those thoughts. I hope you can get this resolved and I hope I have helped you. Feel free to keep talking about it, if telling others helps then don't stop but writting a story may not since you are only telling yourself. Best wishes.

malika sharma
03-21-2009, 08:30 PM
both of you, i understand the way you feel.
i have also been into such situations many times in my life..
i have been suffering many dis orders. its kinda league(lol) i get over from one and the next one is already lined up..
i get scared from flowing water, even rain sometimes scares me.
i m just fed up of all these things..
but hey, reason to smile..we are humans and we have frnds who love us
so i dont care about anything now..

regards
malika