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Dankans
03-21-2009, 09:05 PM
How do you get over it when your close persons(family mates, friends etc) have drepression ? I had a time when my mother had an ilness like this and it was really hard for me in those days. What's about you expierence ?
Nathan2012
03-21-2009, 09:11 PM
My cousin had a stage of depression at one time. It was very hard for me and my other family members to deal with. We were really glad when he "jumped" out of it. I hope that no one ever has to go through it.
malika sharma
03-21-2009, 09:12 PM
i m still trying to get my frnd out of depression but i dont know how to do it. i mean, i m trying to make her feel happy. but whenever i try i land up at getting her more into the depression.
:(
feel very bad!
Dankans
03-21-2009, 09:19 PM
Malika, you should try do to things what you often do and what you are supposed to do. Don't even try to make her happy in this way you are doing at the moment, because in this way you just showing that she has a problem and you making her even more depressed.
premanand
03-21-2009, 09:24 PM
hello there,
Yes actually my cousin's mom has a different type of depression, she will be just like a normal person but suddenly she will speak to someone(imaginary) when we try to explain her that there is no one there, she will pretend as if she spoke only to herself, saw my cousin's face that time, he was very sad had tears in his eyes, i really felt sorry for him, hopefully she will be fine soon
may god bless her and everyone having these problems.
superstar143
03-22-2009, 01:47 AM
one time i wil in depression then i will not talking with family frankly
i will go to either temple or seeing to movie
otherwise go to my frieng
but i am not going deeply depression
i dont like bad word
i am always happy
Refresher
03-22-2009, 11:22 AM
How do you get over it when your close persons(family mates, friends etc) have drepression ? I had a time when my mother had an ilness like this and it was really hard for me in those days. What's about you expierence ?
Same here. Once my mother was going through a quite depressed period, it was like she's was upset and cross almost all the time :(. Sometimes she would cry and that would make me cry too. It was a tough time for me in those days too
Dankans
03-22-2009, 12:02 PM
Refresher, and how you got over it ? What you have done or it just finished naturally ?
arzoo
04-13-2009, 12:19 PM
Whenever my near one is depressed. I watch his condition if it is due to me I remains quite and moves away If it is not because of me I simply ask him about matter...
Ankit Dabda
04-13-2009, 12:22 PM
Really ,it is too difficult to cop up in such condition because the person who is in depression listen you very carefully and you will think that you have solved the purpose but again when he gets any bad news goes to the same situation then you feel it is difficult to tell same thing again and again.
Untitled7
04-13-2009, 12:26 PM
It might be difficult to act around them, but just try and get them outside and into nature, don't avoid them, and make them feel like their is someone there. also check if their are any support groups that aid people with depression.
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